All of us dream about happy family but not everyone is ready to have it really. Family happiness mostly depends on a woman starting from that moment when she chooses a man and further when she runs home and children. Nowadays women are afraid of being housewives and being at the head of home life. It's naturally cause they are afraid of getting boring for their men, actually they are afraid of getting boring for themselves, it's a kind of loss… get lost in home life.

Some women really lose themselves, especially after children birth. They start rushing around, trying to do all at once, saying and thinking all the time “I'm tired, how tired I am”. They forget about how they look, forget about what they want, they always in bad mood, always irritated. It's inevitably if you have a baby, you don't have nanny and you're alone at home all day around. However if you really want to remain a queen for your husband, a friend for your friends, a professional in your job, a good mother for your kid and a good housewife that makes home warm and cozy, there is a way to do that.
First, you should set priorities. The most important for you is how you look, how your baby feels and what he or she needs for the moment and cooking for your family (hungry people are always angry). Watch all these things to be in order. After you have fed your baby and your husband in the morning, spend 5-10 minutes in front of the mirror making up your face and your hair. Believe me 10 minutes is enough for light makeup and simple, accurate hairdo, you just need to look fresh and ready for the day even if you're not going out, you'll see you'll feel better when you look good. Don't wear old and worn clothes at home even if your child always dirties your clothes. Choose something sporty, not expensive but let it look new and let it stress your figure, be sexy even at home. Dressing gowns are bad choice.

When you're ready, back to the baby again. Don't worry about the baby much, enjoy your motherhood. Be positive and say more kind and gentle words to your baby. Spend most of your time with him but don't forget to leave the baby alone for some time during the day to let him play alone. He must be able to play himself and you must give him the chance. Meanwhile you can cook something delicious. Try to make quick and simple dishes, they can be really tasty if you play with your fantasy a little.

These are things that are really worth spending your time on. All the rest like washing floors, dishes, putting different things on places can wait until you find time.

Two more things: sleep with your child as much as he does during the day, it will compensate your night wakeups, you'll feel and look better.
Don't hesitate to ask your husband for help and don't think he should guess himself what to do. He'll never do for the first time. Tell him directly, and in some time he'll get used to his new home responsibilities. And don't forget to thank him all the time he helps, tell him he's the best and you couldn't do without him.

Good luck, love and respect yourself not depending on the situation! If the woman is happy the family is happy!